bonzodaddy73 Posted November 20, 2011 Author Share Posted November 20, 2011 Good luck Bonzo.Cheers BC. Link to comment
essex don Posted November 20, 2011 Share Posted November 20, 2011 have a mate who, in the 80s, was told to sell car and give ex half the money. he sold it for a quid and gave her 50p. she went mental but she was fucked. unfortunatly they have changed the law on that now and you are to give half market value. another mate 'borrowed' her dog. he is a hgv driver. he dropped the dog off 300 miles away, says it tore her up more than them splitting up. Link to comment
Bobby Connor Posted November 20, 2011 Share Posted November 20, 2011 have a mate who, in the 80s, was told to sell car and give ex half the money. he sold it for a quid and gave her 50p. she went mental but she was fucked. unfortunatly they have changed the law on that now and you are to give half market value. another mate 'borrowed' her dog. he is a hgv driver. he dropped the dog off 300 miles away, says it tore her up more than them splitting up. What a fucking arse wipe. Link to comment
essex don Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 strangely BC she was living in the army houses at Raigmore when that happened. Link to comment
terenceandphilip Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 women are like heroin. It doesn't matter how strong you think you are or even are, they can f3ck you. Absolutely f3ck you. Link to comment
Ke1t Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 women are like heroin. It doesn't matter how strong you think you are or even are, they can f3ck you. Absolutely f3ck you. Only if you marry them.... or is there still that Common Law bollocks in Scotland? Link to comment
BrianFaePerth Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Only if you marry them.... or is there still that Common Law bollocks in Scotland? The law over here is whatever you take in to a relationship is what you keep. So, no losing yer millions coz yer burd does a runner. Well, in principle that's the idea, but get kids involved etc and eh would imagine it gets messy. But here a "common law" relationship is also considered to be a fact as soon as ye flit in together. The burd has rights tae yer estate (what's generated onwards from that day anyway), as soon as the keys are in her mitts. Link to comment
barassie_afc Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 You sound like me Bonzo 5-6 years ago, I am back on my feet but the ex holds all the cards re child access , I see my daughter but I will prob need to get a lawyer involved to get more access. Link to comment
tup Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 You sound like me Bonzo 5-6 years ago, I am back on my feet but the ex holds all the cards re child access , I see my daughter but I will prob need to get a lawyer involved to get more access. That's horrendous, nothing worse than a spite filled bitch who uses children as weaponry. The very least a father should expect is full access to his children. Link to comment
looksgoodinred Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 That's horrendous, nothing worse than a spite filled bitch who uses children as weaponry. The very least a father should expect is full access to his children. nothing worse than either parent being spite-filled, using children, pets and anything else that has little or no control over what happens to them, to wound each other. i cannot imagine despising anyone so much that i would use a child against them. the only way i'd keep a child away from his father is in the event of abuse. other than that, it's in the best interests of the child to spend as much time with both of its parents as possible. even if you hate your ex, you still presumably love your children. i don't get it. Link to comment
barassie_afc Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 nothing worse than either parent being spite-filled, using children, pets and anything else that has little or no control over what happens to them, to wound each other. i cannot imagine despising anyone so much that i would use a child against them. the only way i'd keep a child away from his father is in the event of abuse. other than that, it's in the best interests of the child to spend as much time with both of its parents as possible. even if you hate your ex, you still presumably love your children. i don't get it. its called control Link to comment
looksgoodinred Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 its called control not even. it's called being a lousy parent if you ask me. Link to comment
barassie_afc Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 not even. it's called being a lousy parent if you ask me. not going to disagree there ! Link to comment
tup Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 It comes from having not been brought up correctly themselves, therefore having no sense of what being a good parent constitutes. Link to comment
looksgoodinred Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 It comes from having not been brought up correctly themselves, therefore having no sense of what being a good parent constitutes. in most instances that's a crock of shite, no disrespect intended. i've known children who are products of less than stellar parenting, and they know better, and have done better. most times it's more than possible to overcome your own upbringing and do what's right. and be a good parent. i agree with you, that a number of people who've had miserable upbringings may not make the effort to do better, and a small number may not have the skills or abilities to do better... but for the most part, if they don't, it's because they're being lazy and/or selfish. and that's my rant for the day Link to comment
tup Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 in most instances that's a crock of shite, no disrespect intended. i've known children who are products of less than stellar parenting, and they know better, and have done better. most times it's more than possible to overcome your own upbringing and do what's right. and be a good parent. i agree with you, that a number of people who've had miserable upbringings may not make the effort to do better, and a small number may not have the skills or abilities to do better... but for the most part, if they don't, it's because they're being lazy and/or selfish. and that's my rant for the day If kids are brought up by lone parents, they won't be as rounded as adults as those who are brought up in a family environment with mum and dad present. Link to comment
bonzodaddy73 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 You sound like me Bonzo 5-6 years ago, I am back on my feet but the ex holds all the cards re child access , I see my daughter but I will prob need to get a lawyer involved to get more access.Although my ex is a dog selling slut! She doesn't deny me the kids,if anything she tries to get me to take them all the time. I gave her everything but on the proviso that I kept my pension. My solicitor fought hard for that. She's acting like a teenager right now and I can't wait until it falls to bits. Link to comment
slippers Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 If I was ever 2 get married I'd get something drawn up! Stand to lose too much! No chance will I give half earnings iv worked hard for and the things iv inherited to someone that has potentially fuked me over! Absolute joke that your partner is intitled to half of everything even though it has fuk all 2 do with her! Really pisses me off when u hear about wife's getting half of a business tht they have never set foot inside! Link to comment
Sonoftherock Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Just read this entire thread, from start to finish. An advert against marriage if ever I've seen one! Link to comment
Nespa Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 dont ever trust a bird! snake with t1ts seperated 8 years ago and that nice girl you marry and break up amicably with then with outside influences gets her head turned and change into a feckin monster! we decided to split all our stuff equally and six months after we split i called her to get ma stuff (that was supposidly in storage) she told me she had gave away our stuff to her family including ma Link to comment
terenceandphilip Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Statistically, I wonder if most breakups are down to the woman. Not that the woman is to blame, but she's the one to say 'that's it over'. They're awful things like, never f3ckin happy. Link to comment
Dynamo Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 dont ever trust a bird! snake with t1ts seperated 8 years ago and that nice girl you marry and break up amicably with then with outside influences gets her head turned and change into a feckin monster! we decided to split all our stuff equally and six months after we split i called her to get ma stuff (that was supposidly in storage) she told me she had gave away our stuff to her family including ma Link to comment
DD1903 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 dont ever trust a bird! snake with t1ts seperated 8 years ago and that nice girl you marry and break up amicably with then with outside influences gets her head turned and change into a feckin monster! we decided to split all our stuff equally and six months after we split i called her to get ma stuff (that was supposidly in storage) she told me she had gave away our stuff to her family including ma Link to comment
bonzodaddy73 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 After me saying earlier that my ex was ok with regards to access to my kids. Well I just received a text saying she has spoke to a solicitor with regards to seeing them. I'm glad I shaved the head to a number1 yesterday,otherwise I'd be pulling my hair out.Grrrr Link to comment
Bobby Connor Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 After me saying earlier that my ex was ok with regards to access to my kids. Well I just received a text saying she has spoke to a solicitor with regards to seeing them. I'm glad I shaved the head to a number1 yesterday,otherwise I'd be pulling my hair out.Grrrr Cunt! Link to comment
King Street Loon Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 My ex sold my wee pooch 2 months after I left. I was fucking raging with her that she didn't even tell me.I don't even know where my dog is now What a bitch. I hope it works out for you bonzo :thumbs: Link to comment
bonzodaddy73 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 What a bitch. I hope it works out for you bonzo :thumbs:Cheers KSL. It's like she's turned into a different person. Link to comment
bonzodaddy73 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 Cunt!Clunt! Link to comment
rgudon Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 my girlfriend is a family solicitor in inverness, some of the stories she comes out with and cases she has to deal with are beyond belief. women fuking guys over with the kids, guys with secret families and whole lot of even worse shit when it comes to child protection, I wouldnt last 5 mins in her job. Respect to anyone who goes through divorce and comes out the other end still sane and able to move on with their life. Link to comment
bonzodaddy73 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 my girlfriend is a family solicitor in inverness, some of the stories she comes out with and cases she has to deal with are beyond belief. women fuking guys over with the kids, guys with secret families and whole lot of even worse shit when it comes to child protection, I wouldnt last 5 mins in her job. Respect to anyone who goes through divorce and comes out the other end still sane and able to move on with their life.I might be needing her services soon. Does she do a discount for Dandies? Link to comment
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