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Did You / Would You Contact Your Girlfriends Dad Before Proposing?


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Did you ask her dads permission?  

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  1. 1. Did you ask her dads permission?

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      14
    • Nope
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Wondering what the yes folk would do/have done if the father had said no?

 

Would they not marry the girl or would they go ahead and do it anyway disrespecting the father far far more than they would have by not asking him in first place?

 

Was never going to happen,

 

Im a likeable cunt.....ken!!! :)

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I suppose it depends, if you had an inkling that he didn't like you or that he'd say no then you probably wouldn't ask him and you'd just propose to her without asking.

 

In other words, folk would only really ask if they were at least 99.9999% sure he'd say yes.

That was my thinking - so not out of respect at all really then!!

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I think it depends on the culture.

 

While it might seems 'stupid' to some it's likely a necessity in others, in particular cultures where the family is considered a very important aspect of their social fabric.

 

Remember, we all have certain traditions we follow.

 

Some people go to church at Christmas to chant incantations to their invisible sky-wizard.

 

The Chinese have New Year on the 'wrong' day, dress up like dragons, and dance down the street to firecrackers and drums.

 

Some cultures chop off part of a kid's cock then have a party.

 

In the scheme of things, asking the father for permission to marry his daughter is pretty tame.

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I called and asked for his grace not his permission. Basically to ask if he accepted I was civil enough or responsible enough to care for and provide for his daughter. I didn't realise I would be having to do constant DIY, vehicle maintenance and catering for the extended family too, or I'd have just stayed at the bar.

 

If any lad doesn't do that for either of my two daughters he will be treated with utter contempt, derision and despise for ever more. After I've knocked fuck out of him.

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I called and asked for his grace not his permission. Basically to ask if he accepted I was civil enough or responsible enough to care for and provide for his daughter. I didn't realise I would be having to do constant DIY, vehicle maintenance and catering for the extended family too, or I'd have just stayed at the bar.

If any lad doesn't do that for either of my two daughters he will be treated with utter contempt, derision and despise for ever more. After I've knocked fuck out of him.

Being from Tain you would need to ask your own dad if you can marry your girlfriend since she'd also be your sister.

 

:fishing:

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I didnae speak the same language as my faither in law , having said that if i did then i still wouldna have asked him , I do speak french now and hes a sound old guy but as others have said , it was his quine i was interested in and his opinion meant fuck all .

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  • 2 weeks later...

My wife proposed to me!As I like a night oot I said "fuck aye,why no" Went through to the weege tae tell her folks and her auld man tain me oot fer a pint to his local,The Dog Watch,Kelso st Yoker. Fuck me, I thought Oor Wullie,Fat Boab and Wee Eck had knocked it up ower the weekend.Decent pint all the same but the females in the place you wouldnae ride intae battle.

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